Exactly what catnapper said. She needs to recognize that only she can change her life. Counseling would be the best thing for her. Do you think she'd consider it? As for the baby, I think adoption might be her best bet, although I know that would be very difficult to do. Do you think she'd consider adoption? She's in a really bad place right now, so I'd say to try to stick by her and support her, as hard as that may be for you (as I'm sure you're angry).