I don't generally let my dogs sleep "out" until they are at least a year old. Even the little dogs, who mature sooner than the big ones. The two I have now don't even get to sleep out unless I'm taking a short nap. There are too many things they're interested in getting into. lol

Lots of praise when she's doing well. Consistency is the other key to making sure she's feeling "secure." I know people will think I'm nuts to talk like that, but dogs need the "security" of routine and knowing the rules.

When you can, I'd start her in obedience classes. Somewhere that uses positive reinforcement. That helps set you as the "alpha" and maker of the rules. Have the other members of your family and even your pet-sitter attend on occasion (if not every lesson) and work with her with you there. Everyone needs to use the same commands to mean the same thing, and be consistent in one command for everything.

She's likely a clever girl and will figure it all out pretty quickly, I'll bet and life will be much happier for all of you.

Keep us posted,
Christi