Don't take it personally - TRUST ME I know how it feels to go crazy looking for a job. I thought after college that I'd get a high paying job right away, but I learned that it just doesn't work that way. It happens to most people. Then suddenly, after months of looking, you'll find something. It can be very stressful looking for a job. Don't worry, it doesn't mean that anything is wrong with you.
I have learned that guys communicate differently than we do - it can be really hard to get your point across. Just keep trying to talk to him, and try not to get angry and yell, as hard as that may be. If he continues to not listen, you might have to really think about if he is right for you. I know that's scary, but trust me, communication is THE most important thing in a relationship. I haven't been married for long, and I've already learned that.
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