Awww, drat! Too bad Zippy is so far away. Miss Kitty sounds like the perfect addition, and then you could have the Nothern division of the House of Orange.

Both Perrin and Mae are adorable and I'm sure either one of them would fit right in. Like others have said, you will know when you find "the one." He/she will jump right out of the screen at you and say "Meowmie, it's me and I want to go home now, okay?" Or, you never know, he/she may just literally cross your path someday..... Either way, you will know, and like Zippy says, we'll support you no matter what decide to do. {{{hugs}}}

As for success stories, I can't think of any better one than HH Edwina and Eddie. Trust me, if Edwina can learn to peacefully coexist, I'm sure Max can too.