Current Pet Peeve

[Almita]

I agree with wolesrawk I'm a big fan of ac/dc and I love there music all the cds and everything and there are people at my school they say ooo I like that band too and I'm like wat song do you like and they are like ummm the new ones and um like umm ok?! Do you know the names and they are like no and then i say then how come you say you're a gan if you don't know anything about them. I'm also a fan of The All-American Rejects I love them I have all there cds know a lot about them and people yet they so called say they are a fan and yet they are not like I know someone I im with and they say I love that band i'm a fan too and i'm like what are the songs you like and she is all i like dirty little secret and i'm like oh what else and she is all that is the only song I know and i'm like ummm ok?! That just gets on my last nerves.

[Allecto]

Careful, music people... you may be running down and chasing off potential 'real' fans. After all, there was one point in your fandom when you only knew one song or one cd by the bands you love, but since no one made you feel bad or stupid for being that way, you kept learning more about the bands, and getting in to more of their stuff. If they like the new stuff, why not try to turn them on to some of the old stuff, or more stuff from the band? You may be discouraging people who could potentially be great concert buds, or who have similar enough tastes musically to turn you on to something new you'd love but don't know about yet.

As far as the clothes go, I think it is worse to give up something you really like just because other people like it, too. I think not liking something just because other people do is even worse than liking it because other people do. If you really want to be yourself and be an individual, than forget about all the trends. Don't even let them register with you. There's no rule that says you can't incorporate both the most popular and the not-even-on-the-map-yet things into your style. It's all good, as long as it is what you like and what makes you feel good.

[MariaM]

Good post Allecto.

I'm not sure if you were referring to me or not, with the "not liking because somebody else does". That's not exactly how I feel, its just, its not as fun to wear what everyone else is wearing for me, I guess.

[WolvesRawk]

I don't not (I know, double negitive) get stuff because others like it, I just loose intrest when others like it. Such as with the sparkly purses. Since they're now everywhere, they are just boreing.

[Almita]

for clothes i don't mind them getting or accecories but this girl i'm talking about first they say the like the band and then she says she hates it when she hears someone that doesn't like it and then she hears someone else say they love it she says she loves it too. That is how i'm trying to say it.

[WolvesRawk]

for clothes i don't mind them getting or accecories but this girl i'm talking about first they say the like the band and then she says she hates it when she hears someone that doesn't like it and then she hears someone else say they love it she says she loves it too. That is how i'm trying to say it.

Those are the most annoying people.

[Almita]

Those are the most annoying people.

yup and that is what i tired to say and yes they are annoying when they act like that is how someone I know that i chat with that i know just from aim and also tells me every single thing like every minute she tells me what she is doing like for instance I'm all hi what are you up too and she is all i'm making a page and i'm like cool and then she is all i'm adding in the pictures and I say nice and then she says now i'm doing the writing and i'm like oh cool and then she says i'm putting in more pictures and then add the guestbook and i'm like oh ok..... that is what she says a lot and i don't want to hurt her feelings just gets on my last nerves! She is the one that says what i wrote before about i like that to one person and another i hate that band and to another one I love that band too! Also this girl at my school is the same with the band to fit in. Come on just be your own individual! I'm my own individual and i'm a hyper and happy person and at my school every one likes me that way because I'm just being myself!