There is a place close by that has cat boarding with dorset sheep. I have been told that cats and sheep get along really well. The have a large enclosed area where the cats can hang out and also individual areas if the kitty wants some privacy. I really don't want to send Maxx away if it is going to cause her stress. She is a fairly emotional cat and gets a little miffed when we leave her for the weekend. I would rather have someone I trust come into my home and look after her.

My hubby and I are going to have to figure something out. Keep the suggestions coming! I'm glad to see that I am not overreacting to this.
I still haven't spoken with my friend since this happened...