My whole life is falling apart

[mina'smomma]

Sara I sent you a pm hun.

[Ginger's Mom]

I wish I had some wonderful advise to give you to help. All I have is {{{Hugs}}}. Hope things get better.

[Edwina's Secretary]

Sara....I'm with your best friend on this. When you are emotionally able, you might ask your father WHY he chose this particular time to make this announcement.

Just because we love our family members doesn't mean we have to like the things they do.

Just remember the words of Eleanor Roosevelt...."no one can make you feel inferior without your permission...."

[shais_mom]

After I would give you a hug I would like to knock your dad's sock off him.
Blood father or not he is the one that "raised" you (well let me put it this way the only father you know and love) and he needs to stand by you no matter what. Like you needed this to add to your life right now. I have grown up in a very supportive family and too see him do this to you angers me. He turned this around and made it about HIM when it's you that is struggling right now. Even if the chance that he isn't your father - you are in innocent in his game to hurt your mom. Does he expect you to turn your feelings off for him? And I have a feeling that is the brunt of why he opened the can of worms - to hurt your mom thru you.
what a putz.


{{hugs to you}}