What a meanie!! It is terrible when a doctor just sees youas "another case", and not as a human being in a lot of pain!! I had same experience with my previous back-doctor. All he ever told me is "try to live with it!" ; Yeah, sure, how can I do that when I canot move because of all the pain???
I hope you find a better doc asap! Please don't give up, you are such a great person; you don't deserve this at all!! NOBODY does!!