Thanks everybody.

Last night Terry started with the "replacement for Peanut" thing like he had with Tubby. I told him this was different, Lindsey would not be a replacement for Peanut, she would be a friend for CJ! Then he said "Yeah, then they can gang up on her - nope, it's not going to happen." I didn't push it.....but I sent the rescue an email this morning asking about her.....
Where's your *spunk*?

Well.....I've already been told in so many words that WE WILL NOT BE GETTING ANOTHER CAT! So I didn't want to push too hard and ruin my chances altogether.

CJ jumped on Peanut again this morning and I had to yell at him because Terry was already gone. He knows he's not supposed to do that so all I have to do is yell "HEY!" and he leaves her alone. When he came back (which he does right away) I picked him up, smooched on him and told him to send his daddy "Lindsey vibes" when he got home this afternoon. Then I went to Peanut and told her to send "Lindsey vibes" to her daddy if she wanted to be left alone, so.....we'll see.......if you guys keep up the "Lindsey vibes" too, maybe we can just get this pushed through already.