Sometimes a real fight..like you had a two a.m.... establishes the order and things settle down. It sounds as if he did not hurt her...that her claw was hurt on him...

If this episode doesn't end the conflict, can you make a yowl like a very angry cat? When mine get out of hand (Belladonna will tease the others until they chase her and then scream that she is getting killed) a "war-whoop" from me ends it.