Be strong! You can do it! I'd take it as a GOOD thing that the little one isn't on the website - he/she must have been adopted. I know its hard to fight the urge to keep them together. I for the longest time INSISTED Angel and FLutter go together, but ya know what, they bond os easily with other cats too. Its when they are older and have been bonded for years that its hard to see them separated. (did that help?)

Any way, you deserve a big (((HUG)))