Thanks, smokey for rising to the defense of our strange male kitties. Yup, go to the Purrno thread and you will see my beautiful big golden boybee having his way with Muffy the teddy bear. It's completely normal and instinctive kitty behavior. Get your kitty a stuffy or something soft and squishy that he can hump.

I'm so used to Mishi doing it; it just makes me smile and makes for some hilarious pictures for me to post here in PT