It is the "spirit" of Thanksgiving that we celebrate so as long as you have a family, you need to celebrate it with them. I will spend mine today with MY BABIES!! That is just what I want to do. I am cooking for "us" a small meal and being so thankful that we have each other. SO, I agree that you should celebrate with your family somehow and do the big celebration when she comes out of the hospital. Hope she gets well soon so that turkey won't ruin in the fridge!