I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, it really must have been somewhat of a shock even though she was 14.
Many people here at Pet Talk have lost their furkids (including me) and if you want to talk about it, we'll be here for you.
Here's also a couple more online pet loss sites if you'd like to check them out.
In Memory of Pets
This one is run by one of the members here (Kirsten)
Pet Cemetery
{{{Hugs}}} to you.
Anna