have you ever had a serious crush on someone

**stacwase** · 10-15-2003, 12:37 PM

I had a crush on the same boy from 3rd grade all the way through high school! In fact, I still dream about him sometimes! I have no clue why I liked him so much - he's a real jerk, actually. Probably because he never liked me!

Since then I've had short-term crushes, always on really quirky men. Don't know why!

**isis** · 10-15-2003, 02:36 PM

NOOOO!!! All of the boys here are so brainless and SOOOO immature!!

**AmericanSaddlebredLover** · 10-16-2003, 08:13 PM

omg

i soooo agree with u Kfmar!!!!! nelly is sooo hott!

**beeniesmom** · 11-10-2005, 11:43 AM

STEP AWAY from Nelly. He's mine.

Originally Posted by Kfamr

What can I say.....

Nelly.

The lips, the eyes, the voice, the body, the mind, the lyrics.
The struggles, the accomplisments, the goals, the dreams.
The flaws, the perfection. Everything.

From knowing what type of toilette tissue he uses to what his weirdest eating habbit -- and every(almost) little thing in between.

I cry sometimes -- And smile, just WHAT IF I was to meet him. What would I say? How would I say it?

Would I even be able to say it? I doubt it.

I cry when he's on TV, the radio -- and so on. It was the happiest moment at the rap concert I went to when they just played a music video of his. Not even the full thing, just a part of it -- And it was the best.

Anyways, I'll stop now because I could go on and on...

**catnapper** · 11-10-2005, 11:57 AM

LOL.... thanks for taking me back to memory lane!

In 9th grade I crushed HARD for a boy named Bill... he looked just like the Karate Kid (hey - it was the 80s, what can I say?) Dark sexy eyes, dark wavy hair, confidence... yum. Gosh, was I in love with him, I giggle to read my diaries from back then. I was truly obsessed! I look back now knowing what I know, and I'm certain he liked me too, but didn't do anything about it because we were from two totally different cliques. And everyone knows, you don't date outside your clique in 9th and 10th grade!

Then I moved and developed a HUGE crush on a guy named Wesley. He was chunky (but so was I) and FUNNY. Sweet, sensitive, did I mention funny? I would like to know what he's up to today, but I heard he's gay. Oh well. I carried my crush on Wesley from 10th grade to senior year. I know at one point he wanted to ask me out, and had someone ask me for him... and I messed up by saying "why would I want ot go out with him?" Have I mentioned how incredibly shy and insecure I was? If he asked me out himself, I'd have said yes, but since he had someone else do it... I freaked.

Then came college, and I had a few minor crushes here and there, but nothing special. I outgrew crushes and haven't had one since college.

**davidpizzica** · 11-10-2005, 12:00 PM

Gee Carole, I don't know if you realize that I have a serious crush on Donna (moosmom) It was love at first posting! Has anyone fallen in love with another PTer? I think I'm the first!

**jennifert9** · 11-10-2005, 12:22 PM

OMG, this is so funny and such great timing!! I totally have a crush on a guy I work with...he isn't like super good looking or anything but I love his attitude! We email all day and talk on the phone even though he sits about 20 feet away from me....!!
Unfortunately, he is married so it will remain just a "crush." He's on vacation this week and I have been missing him...it makes work fun to come to but I have to keep reminding myself that he has a family at home!

**finn's mom** · 11-10-2005, 12:33 PM

I didn't see this post until catnapper mentioned it in her thread. I have had a few major crushes in my lifetime. Let's see...Cameron was probably my first real taste...I was probably about 7 and I think he was about 14, maybe. I was a camper and he was a counselor. Oh, how I loved him. At the end of the camping week, we had a big bonfire with "awards." I got the "Oh, he's so cute!" award, because I said that nearly all week. I guess I've always been boy crazy. Of course, Cam had a girlfriend. He got the "Melissa" award and she got the "Cam" award. I was devastated. I remember Cam walking me back to the cabin the last night, being so sweet about "rejecting" me...telling me that he thought I was so sweet, but, that he loved Melissa and I was just too young. He was so kind, though...what a nice guy. What happened to those guys? Do you have to be seven to be treated nicely?

The next major crush I really had was in junior high school. His name was Hugo, and, I was so in love with him. I never did anything about it, though...I met him in the sixth grade...I left South Carolina at the beginning of my 8th grade year, and, that was the last time I saw him. We wrote for a month or two, but, that was it.

Then, in high school...at first there was David. Ugh, he was a couple years older than me, and, I met him in ninth grade. When I left in the middle of my tenth grade year, I found out that he liked me, too. Figures.

After that, it was Josh. I LOVED him from tenth grade on. And, what's funny is that I ended up actually hooking up with him after my divorce, when I was about 24. He found me and another classmate of ours, Jason, through one of those reunion sites, and, he drove down to Texas from Colorado to see us both. I was so excited! I had had a teeny tiny crush on Jason in high school, too...but, nothing like Josh. But, it was awful. The moment I stepped out of the car to approach Jason and Josh, I was immediately more attracted to Jason. Josh turned out to be stuck in that high school mentality, didn't understand why he wasn't popular anymore...actually thought I would still be this little puppy dog eyed 14 year old. Uh, no. He really sortof flipped out when I told him I wouldn't marry him (Yeah, he proposed!), and, I ended up dating Jason after Josh went home. Jason and I are still really good friends. It was kinda cool getting that closure with Josh, because, honestly I still think of the other crushes and wonder what they're up to.

**lv4dogs** · 11-10-2005, 12:52 PM

I met this guy Aaron about 13-14 years ago. At first, even though I liked him as a friend only but I still thought he was kind of... well scummy/dirt bagish should I say. After about a week or two I realized that he wasn't. I have had a crush on him ever since.

For the first few years or so we were best of friends. We were almost inseperable. We hung out almost every day. Then the next few years or so we would visit each other about 1-2 times a week or so. The more we hung out the more we liked each other.

This is the sad part as he had a crush on me too. But at first he had a g/f (neither one of us will interfere with someone already in a realtionship). Then he broke up with her but by that time I had a b/f. Then he found a g/f & I broke up with my b/f. Then he broke up with her & I had another b/f.

Last I knew, last year he was still single but I have no idea where he is or how to find him. He moved out of the house he was sharing with his g/f at the time and I haven't heard of/from him ever since.

I still have a crush on him, a major crush!

**clarebear** · 11-10-2005, 05:52 PM

I have had a crush on Bryan Adams since I was 10! lol. I just adore his voice and his hair colour and face

**finn's mom** · 11-10-2005, 06:32 PM

As for celebrity crushes, I've always had one on Johnny Depp. But, most recently, I have a crush on Nathan Fillion, from the cancelled tv series, Firefly and the movie Serenity. He's just exactly my type. Looks like a hockey player, talks like a poet.

**animal_rescue** · 11-10-2005, 07:57 PM

I've been thinking about this lately too... I have a crush from the 2nd grade to the 8th grade on this boy, Jon. Now I'm in 10th and I haven't seen him in a long time since we go to different high schools. I don't think I'm really attracted him per say but I do look for guys that resemble him and I'm mainly looking for funny, curly haired guys.