Okay I finally found a good link for your question on demographics. Here it is. I hope you have cable or DSL it is 87 pages long, I suggest you print it out. There are 21 counties in NJ at the beginning of the statistics for each county they tell you the percent of population for that county that lives in rural and urban areas. So you really may not need a lot of the information in there, but what you want is there, and fairly easy to find (again it is in the first paragraph or so for each county). Also, I am going to PM you a chart of the population by county as of 2004, it is too big to take up space here. Hope that helps. Oh, and they are declaring Democrat Jon Corzine as the winner in the Governor's race.
Okay that chart will not copy right. I guess the most important thing for your purposes is that the population is now 8,698,897. Good luck.
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