I am sorry that I had a terribly busy day today at work, installing a new drive and software on the one machine that effects everyone there, and no one from Pet Talk sent me an alert about that thread until 4:30 this afternoontoday. I cannot look at every thread every minute, but if a thread even BEGINS to concern you, do send me a PM - those I read instantly, as soon as I log into Pet Talk, which I do periodically even on busy days.