Yeah I agree that you should try to use praise or treats to help Phoenix's behavior. It's good that you brought in a behaviorist though, maybe they can give you some helpful suggestions to change his unwanted behavior.
One of my dogs does the same thing with my husband, though- she would never bite anyone but she doesn't listen to his everyday commands unless he's holding a treat, where as she listens to me. I think the difference is I make sure she does what I ask (like if she's outside and I call her in, I get her to make sure she understands it's important to come in when I ask) and he gives up, so she thinks it's not important to listen to him. My advice is that when your behaviorist gives you suggestions on ways to stop Phoenix's aggressive behavior, make sure your husband is involved, too. That way you can both be consistent with each other and hopefully Phoenix can learn what's expected of him sooner. Good luck.
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