Might I suggest a large bottle or two of white zinfandel???????

Oh... you were asking if there is something you can do for Zazou????

Sorry, I have no advice for you. I was lucky to get Sasha in before she went into heat for her first time. And Tabitha..... well, the time came for her to IMMEDIATELY get fixed after she backed up to me in bed, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT.... and peed on me! The time had come!

Good luck! And lots of prayers coming your way for all of you and your family!