When we first got Ebony, Jada hated her with a passion. I was scared to even try feeding Ebony near the other two. I feed my 3 twice a day. 7:30 in the morning, 7:30 at night. Ebony eats in the computer room with the door shut. All's I have to do is say, "Are you ready for supper get in your room". She runs into the computer room. I will probably always feed her away from the other two. Another thing I learned, make them sit before you give them their food. It helps them to respect you as being the top dog. I hope this helped you some I sure rambled on.