How many children do want/have?

[Rie Rie]

I had never really ever thought about having kids, but at 18 I got pregnant. When my daughter was two months old her father and I got married, and been married 20 years come Nov.3. Then right before her fourth birthday I gave birth to a 9lb boy and I told everyone that had he been born first, he would have been an only child because I would have been too afraid to have another big kid. We are still trying to figure our where this big baby came from as my husband is a small man and I am small woman. Of course today my son is 15 and only weighs 111lbs, a beanpoll. We became grandparents almost two years ago, of course we hadn't even thought about being grandparents for a long time, but we absolutely adore our grandson. My daughter got pregnant in her senior year, had the baby in Jan. then graduated with her class that May. I was afraid she could have twins, as I am a twin and they say it skips a generation. Of course she wants more kids, so there's still a possibility she still could produce twins. 2004 was a busy year for us, she had the baby, graduated high school, then got married in Oct. Glad that year is OVER!!!!
This is our grandson Dakota

Wedding day, Oct. 16/04

[crsvstang]

I have 2 daughters- Kaitlynn is 5 years old and Maegan will be 2 next month.

I'm not sure if we will have anymore or not. If we do that is wonderful and if not then I know it was only meant for me to have 2 kids.

Oh, and I don't want anymore then 3.

[dogzr#1]

Well I am tooo young to have kids but my mom has 4kids. Ages 21, 19, 17, 13. And two step children (boys) 18, 13

[4 Dog Mother]

I have 2 daughters, Amy, 29 - Cincy'smom and Christy, 23, Dakota's mommy. My son, Rob was 27 when he died in July. Christy has a 21 month old Jasmine who is the most precious child in the world! She is what is getting us through this awful time.

Having children is the greatest blessing you can have IF you want them. No one should be told they SHOULD have children (except for my daughter, Amy, LOL). While there are a blessing, they are also a lot of work and worry. And no matter how old they get, they are still your babies and you still worrry about them.

I have 5 dogs and they are my babies too. I love them alot but FOR ME, the love I have from them while extremely strong is not nearly as strong as I have for the children who came from and grew within me. They are so much a part of the love I have for Carl and nothing FOR ME can compare with that!

My sister chose not to have children and she feels that was the right decision for her - and I don't think she was wrong in that decision. Again it is important that each person decide for themselves what is right for them. The one thing about pets is they love you unconditionally. They love you no matter what!

[jazzcat]

I don't have any children and don't plan to (probably can't so it's a good thing it's not my life's dream). Since I'm about to turn 38 that chapter will be coming to an end soon anyway, although my mother had me when she was 43 years old.

I have enough to keep me busy with taking caring of my Dad (and my mother before she passed away last year). I've always kind of thought of them as my really big children, LOL. With my Dad being 83 and having severe memory problems it's like having a big baby sometimes anyway.

I do get very tired of people asking when are we going to have a baby. They've quit asking so much the past few years but it drove me crazy in my 20s and early 30s.

[sammy101]

i would probably like to have 2 or 3. but im only 15 so i have a while to decide still

[BitsyNaceyDog]

I do get very tired of people asking when are we going to have a baby. They've quit asking so much the past few years but it drove me crazy in my 20s and early 30s.

That is something I have a hard time with. I'm only 24 and I'm constantly asked "when are you going to have a baby?" It angers me so much. People need to learn to mind their own business.
There is one woman who I know (I don't know her too well, she's a friend of my in-laws) who literally heiresses me everytime she sees me. She will go on and on about how great kids are and how I have to have one. I put up with her heirassment because I don't want to share my personal information with her as to why Justin and I have not yet had a child yet. (I have very abnormal cycles and therefore we are having a hard time conceiving. I have seen the doctor and she can't find any reason we can't have a baby, it will just be harded for us to hit that special day.) I really don't want to share that with her. I don't want everyone in my town to know my personal business and with her knowing they would. I have a hard time standing up to her because she beats me down and upsets me and then I can't stand up for myself (I don't know if that makes sense). This woman is incredible, she is the force that cannot be stopped. Seriously, Justin has tried to stop her from heirassing me, his mom has tried, and so have others, but she keeps going. Anyway, we don't see her too often and if we are supposed to be somewhere she is going to be we send our regards and don't go. I know there are (or at least should be) better ways of handling her, but avoiding her is what works best for us.