OK, so now I'm scared to put ANYTHING in writing here...it'll haunt me!!

I'm not sure where all the confusion came from. When Karen and Aaron invited us up, it wasn't a PT thing. When I said, "looking forward to December" that was directed to Karen. From now on, I'll just keep my direct statements to PMs or emails.

While it'd be great to get together, we didn't know what the weekend entailed with Karen and Aaron, so it isn't up to us to plan that stuff. I felt so bad for Karen, being bombarded with all this stuff...she only invited a few people to her home and it just exploded on her. I feel even more badly because I'm the one that made the comment about coming up.

Lets try and plan something laid back for Sunday. Karen/Aaron work long, hard hours and have long, horrid commutes during the week. I don't want us coming up to cost them any rest they need. I'm not sure if I can handle much more than Saturday's wine tasting...my body is so tired from working and trying to heal...and, lucky for me, my pain has gotten worse than before. This trip was something made so that during my surgery, recovery and sad times, I could look forward to seeing my best friend...that's all this was.

Like Karen, I hope no one's feeling are hurt. That wasn't our intention.

Hopefully everything will work out, and everyone will be happy. I just feel so bad my comment made this whole thing get blown up into Karen's lap. (I'm sorry, honey!! )

We have a bit of time to plan. Maybe we should all wait until November to pick what else we can do?

OK...off to move bad Basie to our new place (CiCi's)...he refused to come out of hiding last night, so he had to spend all night all alone!! Poor baby!!