Wow. I hope her hubby is doing okay now and I hope your brother and new SIL had a good time despite all that.

Sounds like my friend, Rachel's, wedding planning. She asked our friend Cheri, and another girl we know to be Bridesmaids. According to Cheri, the wedding is becoming expensive and extravagant to the point she called and told Rachel she can't be apart of it. The other bridesmaid was making all the expensive suggestions and taking over the whole thing. Sad.