Guilty by association? (sort of)

[AmberLee]

No, but I've known a lot of "Amys" who are married to non-"Amy" types. I just feel sorry for the non-Amys...

Good luck!

[Killearn Kitties]

No I can't say I've ever thought that. Wondered how the person at home put up with them maybe , but never assumed they were the same way.

[Ginger's Mom]

I think the most common thought/reaction in reference to the spouse is, how do they put up with them. I don't think anybody would think two miserable people could live together, so the assumption is the spouse must be an angel. I remember we had a particularly demanding female co-worker, after working out a deal with one of the men in the office, she smiled at him and said,"you should be glad you aren't married to me." I think that is the general feeling.

[dukedogsmom]

I have talked to people on the phone at work before where the person on the phone was really nice and there was a jerk mouthing off in the background. I just felt badly for the nice person. I was married to a jerk like that. Key word: WAS!

[kimboe]

I think that most people are blinded by love that they don't see alot of the bad points in their spouse. That's what I think.