say WHAT?

[king2005]

in Canada its 18 for whatever reason, since you can move out at 16 & you can have sex at 14

Age laws are really stupid here

[cali]

lol I like our age laws here, drinking age makes no sence to me in the US, I mean you are an adult at 18, but you cant drink till your 21 ok thats off topic lol basicly I am at the edge, there are 2 secontions to go to for things like councling, for under 18 you go through child and youth, but for 18 and over your go through mental health. I kept being sent back and forth because I will be 18 this month, because its so soon I am too old for child and youth but because I am not yet 18 I am to young for mental health, finally they decided that since I am just about 18 they mid as well send me to mental health, but because mental health is meant for 18 and older the confidence is in me alone, not my mom. if I were at least able to pick up a phone and force myself to call, I would not have a problem, because even though it would scare me, I COULD do it. my problem is that I CANT do it, I am too afraid of feeling like an idiot, see I dont care what other people think of me, they can think whatever they want as far as I am concerned, I have never been afraid of what others think. I am afraid of how I feel. by the way I DONT like being encouraged or complimented, it embarresses me and makes me blush, and not once in my entire life have I blushed and not been teased about it, I dont care what others think, but I dont like being called tomato face either.

[JenBKR]

Mental health is the go between, but the counselor can really only talk to you also. It's the law, it makes no difference what age you are. Confidentiality and ethics are extremely strict in counseling - a counselor can loose his/her license - and their malpractice insurance is already so expensive.

[kuhio98]

You CAN do it and you MUST do it. I think they want to know if you're really serious about counseling. Do you love yourself enough and want help enough to do something that is uncomfortable for you? YES, YES, YES! Just do it. Get through it and fall apart later. Life is too short to live like this. The only thing worse that living almost 18 years like this would be to live 19, 20, 21.... years like this. The important thing is to start counseling so that you can begin to practice social skills. The more you do so, the more you will see that everyone is nervous, they've just practiced and have gained more confidence. Come on ~ pick up the phone and give them a call. You owe it to yourself.