When I was a teenager I had similar problems. There is a script for Annaprox (sp?) They are huge blue pills, and they take the edge off. Speak with her Dr. about your concerns with the pill. I took the Annaprox for about a year and it stopped working, so I was switched to the pill anyway. As far as the "license for sex" I don't think the pill will make any diff. She sounds pretty responsible and will make her decisions with or with out the pill.