Kim, I totally understand where you are coming from and as far as I'm concerned, you are being a good friend. I would feel the same way.

However, friend or not, she will ultimately make her own decision and if she choses to fly to England to meet this guy in spite of your expressed concern, then there is nothing you can do about it.

It's hard when you have a best friend who lives so far away. You want to be there to help and offer guidance but it's just not possible. All I can offer up is this. First pray that she will be safe. Second, be there to listen if things don't work out and don't judge. She needs to know that she can depend on you.

Good luck and I pray that she makes the right decision and stays home.