Yes, she seems to feel as if she needs a man to proove she's desirable and that her husband was a fool to waste it all away like he did. She's recently joined a gym and lost some weight and is feeling better about her appearance, but there's something deep inside that makes her think a man = security. Never mind the fact that she makes ten times the money her soon-to-be ex husband makes and she can create all the security she'd ever need by herself.

I don't want to reveal her life story (she'd kill me if she happened to find PT and read this thread! ), but lets just say her daddy wasn't an angel when mommy was away. She is not allowed to leave her daughters alone with her dad.

In highschool she was "boy crazy" and snuck out to meet them all the time. She especially like the older guys in their 20's.

So, no, she doesn't have the best mind when it comes to men. She got lucky when she met her husband all those years ago. She wasn't even 20 when they got married and they had a good marriage. He was a whole lot older than she is. He just got mixed up into something really bad and VERY stupid. He hid it from her for at least a year, until time caught up with him.