Jen, you and Charlie and all of yours are in my thoughts so often, not just when I hear that something is troubling you... but warm and loving thoughts just in general. Please let me know if I can help.. I'm not that far away from you. Would a Badger kiss help? WELL HERE'S A BIG SLOPPY CYBER BADGER KISS - RIGHT ON YOUR FACE!! Stay well my friend, you are loved and needed.