Julie, I'm so sorry to hear this but I sure can relate. I had to give Cirrus back to his rescue group because he wanted to be the alpha cat but Storm's already the alpha cat. They would have daily battles and it was affecting both of them healthwise. They're the ones that had to have the PU surgeries. I tried time outs, also scruffing Storm's neck, feliway, spraying water, but nothing would work and it was only getting worse.

I decided that enough was enough when Storm became sick again and Cirrus also began lashing out at Sky. Now I have a peaceful home and everyone gets along. I know it's a difficult decision but you just have to do what's best for you and your furkids. Good luck and please keep us updated.