Oh Julie I know how you feel. Max and Specks still get into their little spats instigated by Max. Most of the time Specks will back down but there have been times when she goes after him with everything she's got. I have no problems breaking them up, but I just hate it when they fight.

Hang in there...I know a solution is just around the corner.

{{{hugs}}}

Have you thought about letting them drink some wine to mellow out???