I have no doubt that Paula and Lexi/her rabbit are real...but I do feel very doubtful about the situation the other day. When her 'mom' posted, it just didn't seem right. Then it was deleted. Then her mom told Karen she didn't delete it. Meanwhile.....I PM'd LexiLover, and she told me she and her mom were in Montreal, and not even around, and she didn't know what was going on. BUT..her 'mom' told Karen she didn't delete it. So......if her mom was in Montreal, how did her mom PM Karen? It just wasn't adding up. Everything seemed odd and fake....like a bunch of lies trying to cover up previous lies. I told her in my PM that if she was telling the truth, I would advise her to come to PT and post HER story, and clear things up. She never replied to me after that. This was before she was banned. Her not replying when I told her to clear things only further convinced me that the falling story was a pure lie. She was never at the hospital...she was answering PM's.
I did talk to Karen though PM's, but I would hope she will clear things herself. I don't want to post her PM's publically, as I don't feel its appropriate....so let's wait for Karen to let everyone know the whole story. I for one do believe Paula lied, but at the same time, I feel only an incredibly lonely/insecure person would do that.....and she would need true friends to guide her, rather than have the world turn their backs at her. Just how I feel. That being said, there is NO excuse to make up such lies and deceive people...ever. Sometimes young people feel the need to be accepted, and do weird things because of that. I wish that wasn't the case. I do feel she needs a good friend that can help her. That being said...trust is one thing that is very difficult to put back together again once its broken. I would forgive her, but if she truly DID lie, I would find it very difficult to trust her for a long, long time. I told her to come back and explain. She didn't.
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