Guys, I think I will mention PT to her. We spoke on the phone again last night for half an hour. I had to finally hang up because during the whole conversation my kids' friends kept beeping in (and boy did I get in trouble for not answering the call waiting --- )

She wants me to email pics to her Monday morning on her work e-mail. I will do that and maybe by mid-week send her a link to PT. Or perhaps send a link to this thread and she can see how excited everyone is that she's adopting the girls, and she can join herself. Who knows! You never know how someone would react - some people might be overwhlemed by strangers knowing about them and their cats and such.