Originally posted by anna_66
Gini~Yes, she will be having responsibilities, but I'm not really sure about that. I do want her to keep her room clean, clean up any messes she make & things like that, but I'm not sure what else, any advice on that?
At 15, she's old enough to be aware that life doesn't come with a maid. Make a list of some things that are done on a weekly and daily basis and then ask her which chores she would be willing to take on as part of the family. Being a contributing member of the household will not only help her into the transition from child to adult but it will make her feel useful and needed.

This is also an age where she might like to acquire some cooking and or baking skills. This would be an activity you and she could share and enjoy together. She might want to learn how to prepare some of her favorite dishes or prepare a whole meal by herself. I wish I would have had someone to take me under their wing in this respect.

She will want to spend a lot of time with friends, but reserve some time for her to spend with you and your husband as well, because for all intents and purposes, you are now her family. This might take some effort on your part to seek out activities that you all could enjoy together, but it will expand your own universe a bit as well.