Gini~Yes, she will be having responsibilities, but I'm not really sure about that. I do want her to keep her room clean, clean up any messes she make & things like that, but I'm not sure what else, any advice on that?

sas~I'm glad you replied, even if you don't have children, cause I don't either (well, not yet anyway!)

Edwina's~Thanks for the good advice, knowing someone else went through a similiar thing helps me feel better. And good luck to you again!

To tell you all the truth, I'm really scared mabe that sounds stupid, but I can't help it! I know it will either work or not, but I don't want to ruin the relationship I have with her now.

If anyone want to add at any time I would be thankful for the pointers!