I do not know what to say. Only you can decide what you need to do. Not everyone can let go of the things they love. And I don't say that as a criticism. But if you mean what you say when you said I know I'd be thrilled if she found a fabulous home like the one Katrina found or the one that Nessa and Efie found. then you MUST at least respond to the inquiries and give the people a chance to show you who they are.