Guido - I am so very sorry about you and Michelle losing Lilith. This place is very special and reason is our love for pets and most of us understand loss. I have never lost a young cat though - so your pain is something I can only imagine. Your Michelle is a friend to all of us here. She always shares kind words, pictures of your babies and designs lovely graphics for many of us.
Again - I am sorry about Lilith and glad you felt you could come here to share some of your loss.