I got Aspen 1 mth ago and Phoenix 2+half weeks ago and they did the same thing with the toys they still can't have 2 touys they always end up sharing one at the same time there usally pretty good then they end up getting mad and i have to take the toy away after a little while i think once Smudge lays down the rules they'll work it out Cheyanne the little queen is the one that lays down the rules here and they know not to mess with her when she has a toy Just give it alittle more time and it should work it self out