I love the suggestions that everyone is giving me but I've tried them or at least styles similar to them. Maybe I'll try them again, its been a couple months since I tried to do anything to it.

My hair is really goofy.
It is pretty curly by nature, so curly that it is pretty unmanagable if scrunched or just blowdried. I have to blow dry it straight & put a hat or bandana on my head for about 20 minutes to make it as straight as the picture shows. I don't like it curly. But when it is shorter and/or longer than it is now it gets straighter. This is my hairs curly stage.

My hair does have layers in it, and just got more added to it but it didn't really make much of a difference.

Kittycats delight, I LOVE those styles, but I can't get my hair to look like that unless I use some stiff styling products. The softer ones don't really work in my hiar. After about an hour it all falls out of place.

I'll be playing around with styles tonight.