I have to agree with PCB..however, I don't really know what Megan is going through, or the situation she is in (even from her posts)

Without that information, I can't accuratly say "Megan, you're wrong!" or "Yah, Megan, your mom is horrible!"

If MY mom asked me to do that and it was either really late, or she was rude about it I would simply say "No, it's late." And that would be it. I wouldn't yell or get angry. That solves nothing (especially in your case if you mother is always like that. Perhaps that makes her a little more cranky then she is already. I know if I EVER talked rude to my mother I would regret it! I was taught never to talk back. Although, I HAVE been rude to her before...I can't say I haven't but that's something else lol.)

Again, I understand your mom has a lot of issues, so I can't say you're wrong or anything (I don't know the situation at all) so don't think I'm talking against you, cause I'm not. But perhaps you could just walk away. It would probably make you feel better (not getting angry) and that's what is important. You being happy, right? Maybe she is a child and does it to get you going, and if she sees you don't care, maybe she will grow up a bit? Have you told her how much she hurts you??

Again, I'm not trying point fingers, so forgive me if I'm wrong.