I never took it like missy was saying if your anti war your anti american. I just think in a foreign country like japan when she is given comments it is probably anti war/ anti american...thats how I took it anyway.

I am deeply sorry this thread turned ugly. Even though I did not want a war, and I probably would not for any reason, so maybe I am wrong. I just like everyone to get along....anyway even though I did not want a war I think we need to finish what we started and I wish for your husband to be safe.