..I've must accidently click on "unsubscribe all threads" link again..

everyone, I'm not saying NO ferals should be at least identified, I'm only speaking about my situation and what to do.

jen, I guess you didn't read throughoutly, I said they knew they were the tame. that's why I was confused. this wasn't their first visit with them, their fourth one.

this is what I got back again this morning from a dvm -
Gina,

Again, I am sorry about the confusion regarding the cats that were spayed and neutered last wednesday. I had a talk with our vet assistant, (name removed), who told you we will not notch their ears on that day. As she noted, will send you an email soon.

I know your cats are indoor, friendly cats but when a feral cat voucher is used we are not allowed to make any decisions about what to do and what not to do.

We really do not have a choice, we know we did not warned you and I am sorry about that.
sigh, the only problem was...if I knew! guess there's nothing I can do about that right now but just to think,...how to prevent this error for other new owners. they wouldn't want that either.

lizbud, maybe you're right - they were only seven months and ears may look a half to me. I studied their ears again, it seem not as bad as before since they're healing up and start to "round up", you know? I looked at mother's, star - hers still is pretty a big notch.

krazyaboutkatz, pictures - sure I will but not right now, it's painful for my heart to ask them to smile, crop, resize and post those poor kittens. hope you understand that. if my cats were about to notch, your sky's "character-nick", that is what I would expect!!! then I wouldn't be as upset as I am right now.

thanks to those who corresponded, it means a lot to me.