Poor baby, I think with time and following the suggestions of the other PT members Begira will work out his problems. I too think that he must be overwhelmed as it really seems he got used to being his own friend and company. Adjustments can be hard and cats are creatures of habit. I am positive that once he re-adjusted to being a family member and being loved instead of just "being" then you will have a marvelous baby on your hands.

Keep us posted please

Michelle and the girls