As an addition to Catnapper's post, the problem with domestic violence is that too many women put up with it. With all the women's lib and the strides that women have made in equality since the 60's and 70's, the fact is we are still too submissive and willing to take whatever men dish out. Part of the reason those who are abused put up with it is because they are afraid of what the husband/boyfriend will do to them if they leave, and often that's exactly when the killing occurs - after the woman has left - but also because so many of us are still so financially dependent on men, especially when children are involved. It's a sad, sad situation that is not going to improve until women stand up for themselves and decide they aren't going to take it anymore.