I think it's awesome that all of y'all dance with your pups. I used to slow dance with Bruno all the time. He loved it. I'd hold him like a little baby and he'd just relax. Finn loves being held, and, it's not easy anymore....I don't do it daily like I did when he was less than 40 pounds. But, at sixty, I do it less, but, I do still pick him up, he puts his front legs over my shoulders and I fold my arms under his butt. His back legs usually just stick out to either side. Slow songs, I hold him, fast ones, he stands up on his back legs.