Hmmmm, I'm not sure, it's hard to explain. I am definitely NOT a hug initiator. BUT, I don't mind if someone else makes the first move, except when I'm not sure of their intentions. Like some people I'm always afraid of doing the wrong thing Like to give them a hug, when all they meant was a peck on the cheek, ya know??

One time, we went to a Church, and in the middle of the Worship service, everybody gets up and hugs everybody else. There is NOTHING more embarrassing than being emassed by tons of people that you have never met and don't even know if you like or not. I didn't fit in too good at that church.