I am so sorry that you have to give up Boomer. It is understandable, the reasoning, but still very VERY sad. Such a hard thing to do.

But once you find that perfect family for him, you can feel a little better knowing he is safe and loved.

I suppose, you could always check on him when you return to apan (if you thought that would be OK for him)

Take care, and prayers for your husband for a safe tour of duty.