Originally posted by GoldenAngel

What is the most imporant thing I should get for her.
I have on my list : a kennel crate ( i hear that is it very good to kennel train them(
A dog bed, food and water bowl,blankets, leash and colar, ........
What is the best product to clean out their ears? I had a cocker spaniel a few years ago and after she was about 2 years old, because of her long hair we needed to clean them out.
Also, while I'm at it, by your own experiences, what is the best and healthiest way to control fleas? I hear about so many methods but which one is the safest and most effective?
Ok, I'll stop with the questions for now. I'm just really excited.
The above questions can be answered by the sites Bckrazy posted above.

As for these questions...
What is the most important thing I should get for my GR?
Before you get your puppy, you should buy an appropriately sized nylon collar, 4'-6' nylon leash, food and water bowls, a wire or plastic adult-sized Golden Retriever crate with dividers (reason is the crate should only be large enough for the dog to stand up and turn around to prevent accidents), a mat for the crate or a few old blankets, a dog bed for inside the house, grooming tools (for a Golden, the basics are probably a shedding blade, a slicker brush, and nail-clipper- DON'T use the guillotine style nail clippers. In fact, why use clippers at all? Use a Dremel! ), and food.

For good brands of food available in Northern California (if that's where you live ):
California Natural
Innova and/or Innova EVO
Chicken Soup for the Dog/Puppy Lover's Soul
Wysong
Wellness
Solid Gold
Pinnacle
Fromm
Canidae

If you need the links to any of the aforementioned items, just ask!

What is the best ear cleaning product?
Very good question. I also have a heavily coated, flop ear dog and I generally use whatever ear cleaner that's on the shelves. Most, if not all, ear cleaners come with two bottles because ear cleaning takes two steps. The lable on the bottles will tell you what to do. I also will pluck the hair inside the ear with either a tweezer or hemostat.

What is the best flea preventive?
Either Advantage or Frontline (any formula) is fine. Be sure to avoid the cheaper products because those products use potentially harmful chemicals that can cause neurological problems. To my knowledge, Advantage uses pyrethrin (hmmm, I think that's spelled wrong) which is a derivative of crysanthemum. I think I hope that helps you!