I am the proud and fortunate owner of two wonderful goldens! I have had goldens for close to 30 years now. Please be aware that a golden puppy (or most puppies for that matter) can be little terrors. The most common mistake people make is not adequately socializing and training the pup in the first couple years of it's life. They feel that a puppy kindergarten class and then perhaps a basic obedience class when the pup is under a year old is sufficient. IT IS NOT! Training needs to be a constant activity for the dog (golden or any breed) for several years at a minimum.

I suggest getting your husband involved in the training process. It will establish a bond between them. Find a local Golden Club or all breed dog club that does obedience, field, agility or whatever you think you may be interested in doing with the dog. Then have both of you take an active role. Your husband may realize he needs another golden! They are extremely social animals and having two is usually what ends up happening to a lot of people!