I think he has forgiven me as he came and got petted. Shadow has definetely given up any resentment she might have been holding as she has been purring, licking my feet all night (I'm trying to sleep and this is an opportunity for lovies ). Callie has stolen my seat and I'm able to sit on the wee edge while I type this.....she meowed at me to pet her head so I guess all is well.